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Erotic Compass: discover what matters in your intimacy

What draws you towards intimacy? Explore the role of connection, freedom, being wanted and shared pleasure, and how present these feel in your life.

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Four equally valid motivations

Connection

Feeling close to the other person.

Freedom

Expressing yourself and letting go.

Being wanted

Feeling the other person’s interest and desire.

Shared pleasure

Valuing what you experience together.

An example question and result

Illustrative example: these are not personal results.

Question

Feeling close to the other person, even when the sex is not extraordinary.

How much does this draw you towards intimacy? Example answer: 5 out of 5.

Not at allVery much

How present is this today? Example answer: 3 out of 5.

Not at allVery much

Result: your motivations

82

Connection

58

Freedom

70

Being wanted

90

Shared pleasure

How to read it

The profile shows how much each motivation matters to you. These illustrative scores from 0 to 100 are not shares of a total. This is neither an archetype nor a diagnosis, and all four motivations are equally valid.

How it works

Read the statements
Experiences linked to the four motivations.
Rate two aspects
How much they draw you towards intimacy and how present they feel today.
Solo or together
Explore your profile in the Untame app and, if you wish, compare it with a partner’s.

Practical information

Language: This page and the questionnaire in the Untame app are in English.
Account and returning: You do not need to register with an email and password. Keep your personal link to return to your answers and results. Do not share it, as it gives access to your space.
Cost: Getting started is free. Check Untame for current access terms and any paid services.
What a partner can see: You can explore solo or with a partner. Within a shared journey, profiles and comparisons can show each participant’s motivations when the relevant answers are available.
Limitations: These questionnaires are for adults aged 18 and over and offer ideas for exploring preferences and desires. They are not medical tests, psychological diagnoses or definitive assessments of relationship compatibility.

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