Who it is for and what it explores

Desire and satisfaction

For each activity, rate how much you desire it and how satisfied you feel today: two separate values.

Choose your topics

Start with topics that interest you, rather than a fixed list that is the same for everyone.

Solo or with a partner

Answer for yourself or invite a partner. Everyone answers separately.

Similarities and differences

The comparison shows where your interests meet and where they differ.

An example question and result

Illustrative example: these are not personal results.

Question

Slow, emotionally connected intimacy.

How interested are you?

Not at allVery much

How satisfied are you with this today?

Not at allVery much

Result: desire and satisfaction

Slow, connected intimacygap 45
Desire
85
Today
40
Sensual massagegap 15
Desire
70
Today
55
Role playgap 40
Desire
60
Today
20

How to read it

A gap between desire and satisfaction can be a starting point for reflection or conversation, rather than proof that something is wrong. The example values use a scale from 0 to 100.

How it works

  1. Choose your topics

    Select the themes you would like to explore.

  2. Rate twice

    For each activity, rate your interest and your current satisfaction.

  3. Solo or together

    If you invite a partner, each of you answers separately in the Untame app.

Practical information

Language
This page and the questionnaire in the Untame app are in English.
Account and returning
You do not need to register with an email and password. Keep your personal link to return to your answers and results. Do not share it, as it gives access to your space.
Cost
Getting started is free. Check Untame for current access terms and any paid services.
What a partner can see
Everyone answers separately. Within a shared journey, answers to matching questions can be compared when they are available. Comparisons can show differences as well as shared interests.
Limitations
These questionnaires are for adults aged 18 and over and offer ideas for exploring preferences and desires. They are not medical tests, psychological diagnoses or definitive assessments of relationship compatibility.

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